cheer up everyone!

i did one of those blog hopping that i dont really do often, but rather, time to time.
 
and you notice something very striking. almost every single blog that i go to talk about the author's worries, depression, paranoia, problematic life, unhappiness, hurt, anguish, etc, etc, add all the negative feelings you can think of.
 
now, i question, are these authors really feeling that, or is it just a trend that everyone follows in blogging?
 
coz i think its all just a fab. i mean how can everyone be so depressed in blogs and then you see them in school or outside, they are enjoying life, smiling, laughing and such?
 
do we really have to resort to such methods to start a blog, or to make people read and then worry, which might make us feel that there are people who actually cares and thinks of us?
 
has our lives become so sad? i dont for a moment believe those that might claim, 'i'm pretending to be happy on the outside, but im actually suffering from the inside' crap.
 
why do you all need to put up a front to seek attention? by doing that, you are being hypocritical from the very beginning, and whats so ironic is that that is the very attribute that you so hate when others do it. so why are you all doing it?
 
i think its all due to the fast living that we all have and seek. because of that, everyone does what everyone else does and so on. its all a fab, so dont fake it.
 
its just a message im trying to convey. if you dont agree with what i say, then you can just leave, dont leave any comments saying 'you think you're so smart you know everything?'
 
but if you observe that trend in almost every single blog, you gotta wonder... dont you all think?
 
its not that hard to be happy. stop setting such high expectations, stop expecting so much out of others, be content with what you have and what you can realistically get. you shouldnt be so sad or worried if you do exactly that, and you feel like everyday will be good.
 
listen to lenny kravitz's 'california,' maybe it might help.
 
and for some real hard soul singing, 'let love rule' by who else but lenny.